Having the toddler potty trained is a relief. It makes life at home so much easier. Fleur tells she has to go and does.
The trick was away from home January to April were during the pandemic. Stores generally had open restrooms. Some parks we frequented did as well, but most did not.
There was also the visiting the restrooms because they are there. She saw a place we know has one and tells us she needs to go. I started to think of it as Pavlovian: seeing a place with one was a reminder that maybe she needed to go.
The anxiety mainly manifested when she said she had to go, but we did not have a clear place to take her.
There are portable seats. Maybe that makes sense when often find ourselves in that situation and/or with multiple kids. For us, it was 4-5 times a week.
We seem past the trials part and into a groove. The next problem was false positive claims of needing to go. She claimed to need to go and didn’t. That seems to have ceased.
She also has started sometimes wanting privacy. Which makes sense. I waited outside the stall but in the bathroom.